Turning casual dating into relationship
While you know it’s a little soon to start thinking that way, you make up your mind that you’re definitely ready for a committed relationship with him. Although, after all the things he’s said and done with you, and all the time you’ve spent together, you’re pretty sure he feels the same about you. And all you have to show for it is a cold, empty feeling in the pit of your stomach.
You decide to “play it cool” and see where this leads. And eventually, it stops completely and the unthinkable happens: He’s gone. It really sucks to have already committed your heart, your time, your energy, and your love for the sake of the relationship, and then find out that he’s not even willing to go there with you. Why is it that guys seem to be able to date forever and not even care about experiencing the deep connection and intense feelings of love and intimacy that a committed relationship can bring?
Dear Friend Who Would Like To Learn How To Make Men Commit, Has something like this ever happened to you?
You meet a guy who seems to have something “special” about him. I’m talking about a guy who is relationship material.
But as the days pass, you find yourself hoping he will say something to you… ”Or worse yet, he completely avoids the conversation, won’t open up, and acts like you are the one being difficult. If you are like most women, you’ve asked yourself this question time and time again. He realizes that if a relationship with you was what he really wanted there’d be no convincing necessary.
picturing the moment when he will finally open up, share his deeper feelings, and ask you to be “his”…But before you know it, weeks or months have gone by, You decide to bring it up, in the most casual way possible. Then, over the next few days, he becomes more and more distant. And unfortunately, most women go about trying to remedy this situation in 1 of 3 disastrous ways: Just like a pushy salesman trying to get you to buy a car, trying to convince a man that he should be in a relationship with you actually makes him want it LESS. He’d FEEL IT emotionally, and his feelings would tell him all he needs to know.
If you’re a single woman, you’re probably all too aware of the challenges of dating in 2016.