Dating and older and men
Evolutionary psychologists say that relationships like this often occur because while fertility lasts only from puberty to menopause in women, it starts at puberty and can extend long into midlife for lots of men.
That means there’s a strategic advantage for women to snag an older gent—he’s had more time to accumulate resources and stability than his younger counterparts, which could make him a more viable partner and father.
Purely because they have had experience and learnt from their mistakes!
One thing my dad told me while I was dating this older guy was..
Of course, there’s something romantic, alluring and even reassuring about dating a man who’s quite a bit older than you.