I can relate to all the questions we receive on a personal level because once upon a time, I too was banging my head against the table in an effort to understand .
Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. I'm looking for a girl to take traveling, to explore restaurants and go to shows but to do all this, she sort of has to have a lot of free time on her hands.
A girl with a serious job typically has too much going on to be able to just go out on a weekday Las Vegas jaunt or something of the sort.
Now I'm not saying I want a Paris Hilton but I would prefer my wife at least be from a upper middle class background.
There are pros and cons to marrying chicks from humble backgrounds but the cons outweigh the pros for me.
So it goes without saying that the odds are in your favor that your dried up raisin of a heart will eventually heal enough to try this love thing again.